Trusting yourself with your decisions
How much do you trust yourself when you make decisions?
Making a decision isn’t the end of the world.
But in the process of making a decision we somehow put this weight on it.
I worked with a coaching client on this recently around a decision she was making.
After she had made a decision that felt aligned to her and her body, the trust in herself and her decision started to waver.
All the "what ifs" started to play out.
She started to wonder if her decision would affect 10 other things...
Her body started to tense, change, and react to embodied fear around uncertainty.
Here's the thing...
You can CHOOSE to make a decision, OR you can try to straddle the line of multiple options.
The latter drains a lot of energy because you’re constantly trying to make it all work and keep all doors open, hoping there is a guaranteed outcome from your decision…
But when you CHOOSE to make a decision, trust it, and then follow through with inspired action to see if it supports you, this energizes you.
It gives you energetic momentum and fuel.
Even if the decision is “wrong” (fyi I don’t believe that you can make wrong decisions), you learn and re-calibrate to make another decision.
I see so many people stuck in the limbo of TRYING to make decisions.
Or making decisions but then second guessing their decision, which then makes them scared to make any decisions at all.
Even just explaining that makes me tired. To try and control all of the outcome and possibilities from one decision…
It is exhausting AF. I know it was for me. What about you?
What if instead you knew that you can only make one decision at a time…
And that you trust yourself to make a decision, knowing that you can't make a wrong decision...
And you trust in your ability to re-calibrate, learn, and embrace any and all outcomes.
When we make decisions from a place of trust, versus fear:
There’s less stress and anxiety
There feels like a natural flow to how things come together
There's more pride, acceptance and compassion for one self
Things turn out - and even when they don’t turn out as planned - everything still feels okay
Does this resonate with you? Hit reply and let me know!
Victoria
Repeat after me: I am allowed to trust myself. The more I find ways to feel safe in trusting myself, the more I accept myself as I am and shine with authenticity.
If you're interested in support and guidance on how to trust yourself and the decisions you make in life and business, book a complimentary introduction call with me (40-mins)